Not necessarily. I know what I would do in the situation, but it's not my situation to make the call. OP is requesting ideas so I am trying to help them. I can still disagree with a point and at the same time offer ideas.@putz with respect you are contradicting yourself. You say hire an email babysitter and the proposed methods that eliminate the need. So long as the person who needs to be notified gets instant notifications and can act on them you have satisfied the OP's request.